Well.....

Me: Do you have proof of this accusation?

Him: No

Her: He has no proof because it's not true.

Me to Him: If it were true, can you overlook it? Can you move past it? Is this a deal breaker?

Me to Her: If this were true, can you move past it? Can you go on without this baggage and whatever it is that drove you to make this mistake? Can you both keep on living together without looking back at this time in your relationship?

~ This is why I didn't pursue counseling. I suck at it. Plus I take it personally and too seriously.